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In this episode, John talks about playing back old memories to recreate the amazing feeing it gave you back then today, and how memories and new experiences make an imprint in your life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about two types of relationship energy with special guest, Dene Logan. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode, John reads a letter he wrote to himself. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode, John talks about the benefits of being open to everything in life while not attaching yourself to anything in life at the same time. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa have a laser session with another couple. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode, John talks about encourages his listeners to pause and think about what they're looking forward to in life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode, John talks about the fine line between self care and self destruction. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa have a laser therapy session with another couple. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode, John explains and gives his tips on how to know if your relationship is safe. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode, John talks about the different types of barriers you should look for that prevents love. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa talk about having hard conversations and what's running underneath relationship conflicts. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode, John talks about a new type of love we should thread into all of our relationships. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode, John talks with a longtime friend, Haylin Dennison, about social work, trauma, growth, and life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa have a conversation about radical responsibility in relationships. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode, John shares his advice on how to be more productive. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode, John talks about the type of people you shouldn't wait around for. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode, John hosts an Instagram live called "Therapy Thursdays" where he asks and answers listeners' questions live. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode, John talks about his revelations he's learned at 49. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode, John talks about his definitions of what makes a good life. Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode, John answers a listener's question: what should I do if he emotionally cheated on me? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the curtain back and documents his journey as a therapist but more importantly, as a human being.   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.